The ‘easy’ way swingers spot each other’s preferences on a busy cruise

Fitted with 24/7 ‘playrooms’, clothing-optional decks, and ‘immersive experiences’ that put sexual intimacy at the forefront, spicy cruises have become a booming tourism industry.

Typical package holidays cost anywhere from £1,000 to £5,000, and are often marketed as an ‘adult spring break’, with sex on the beach a promise rather than a cocktail.

Each cruise comes with its own particular set of offerings, rules, and specialisms.

While some are strictly couples-only, others encourage adventurous singles to board.

And a few even operate a wait list for anyone interesting on coming solo.

There’s also different kinds of spicy cruises.Temptation Cruises calls itself ‘lifestyle-friendly,’ while Desire Cruises openly brands itself a swingers cruise.

To help avoid any awkward interactions in the playrooms, one touring company, Bliss Cruise, allows passengers to create their own ‘named necklace’, with different coloured beads corresponding to different forms of ‘play.’
You’ll no longer have to enquire if the sexy 6 ft 2 adonis in the purple shirt is ‘into BDSM’, you’ll just know.

Bella & Jase, swinger lifestyle content creators on TikTok and spicy cruise veterans, recently posted a video on the Bliss Cruise official app explaining the ‘name necklace process.’

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Describing it as a perk only available to members who are part of the cruise’s loyalty program, the couple explains:
‘You might be wondering why you’ll see so many couples who go on Bliss Cruise wearing name necklaces.

‘When you’re part of a loyalty program, which is free to sign up for, you can come to the name necklace station and choose your beads which all correspond to a specific play style.’
The pair continue: ‘This way, it’s easy to see at a quick glance people’s names, as well as their relationship dynamic.’
So, without further ado, here is the official Bliss Cruise name necklace breakdown:
White: ‘Loves the vibes but prefers to watch: no participation, just voyeuristic fun.’
Green: ‘Loves being watched and comfortable with soft swap – kissing, touching, and oral play.’
Blue: ‘Enjoys full swap and threesomes with adventurous, consenting couples.’
Black: ‘Open to group play, orgies, and hall pass encounters – independent fun encouraged.’
Pink: ‘Open to same-sex play and bi-curious or bisexual experiences and connections.’
Red: ‘Explores kink, fetish, BDSM, and role-play for a thrilling, sensual edge.’
Given the fact that spicy cruises are open to so many different kinds of customers, it’s important to offer ways to make everyone onboard feel totally comfortable.

Replying to curious commenters on TikTok about the fun added feature, Bliss Cruise confirmed that ‘Make a Name Necklace’ is available on Day 1 and the first two sea days, and that you can change your beads at any time during the trip, including adding or removing colours.

One user, @void_princess, added: ‘This is something I really wish clubs would do!

‘Ive been to some events that had traffic light wristbands but they’re never specific enough, these are amazing!

Especially since I always forget everyone’s names.’

How much does it cost to go on a spicy cruise?

Depending on which tour operator you go through, spicy cruises can cost a hefty sum.

However, you can definitely get more affordable deals if you pick wisely.

Bliss Cruise’s next voyage, a seven night trip in November taking passengers from Miami down to Curaçao and Aruba in the Caribbean, has already sold out.

Meaning if you want to travel with the company, you’ll have to wait for their next charter in February 2027.

The ‘Fiesta Cruise’ has been described as ‘the perfect escape for couples craving a little winter heat with a whole lot of spice.’
Sailing from Tampa, Florida to Cozumel, Mexico, this four night cruise starts at just $685 (£592) per person for a ‘standard interior’ room.

However, this doesn’t cover any costs onboard.

It’s recommended to purchase ‘drinks packages’ beforehand to help budget your spending.

Plus, you are also allowed to bring wine or champagne on boarding day.

But it’s limited to two, 750ml bottles per stateroom and may be subjected to an additional cost if consumed in public.

If all-inclusive is more your vibe, it might be worth checking out Killing Kittens, a kink-positive event company, due to set sail in just a few weeks on June 6.

Taking voyagers from Barcelona to Monte Carlo, before journeying on to Florence and Portofino, this package definitely sits at the higher end of spicy cruises – costing guests £5,000 for their cheapest ‘interior room.’
However, it’s promised to be a trip to remember – hosting a heady timetable of Killing Kittens’s most popular event, swinging events, including Hedonism, the longest-running Killing Kittens sex party.

With just a few tickets left, you better get moving!